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Anonymous said: I found out I was pregnant last week. My family will disown me if they find out, and I'm scared the father might leave. I'm only 18, I don't work, and I have school. I have clinical depression and being pregnant is making me feel suicidal. Any advice? I'm open to anything.
Depending on the test you took there’s a possibility you’re still not pregnant. Unless you got it professionally done. If you didn’t go buy another stick pregnancy test just to be sure.
First off, congrats. I know you’re feeling really scared right now. That’s normal. Even people who are married feel that way. Having a baby is a big thing, a thing that’s can change your life for the better.
Your 18, sweetheart, you’re old enough to where your parents should respect you being pregnant. I get that you say they will disown you, and you know what? In all honesty that’s a possibility, but if you talk it over with them, and I mean really talk about it maybe they’ll come to terms.
If worst comes to worst, you’re 18 and can legally go move in with a friend or uncle without the whole custody battle.
It may sound hard being able to let go of your family(that is, if they can’t respect you for bringing life into this world) but in the long run of life, it’ll work out. They’re your flesh and blood and hopefully they’ll see that.
Whatever you do don’t let them convince you to get an abortion. There are always other options.
The father, hmm. This is where things get difficult and very opinionated on my part. So I’m sorry if this gets offensive. If you were to tell him and he were to leave than what does that tell you about him? Is he really worth being with if he can’t support you through hard times.
Juggling a baby, a job, and school would be hard.. But the best things in life come with hard work. It will be hard, but life can’t be easy.
I know you probably don’t want to hear me say this, but I’ll pray for you and that your depression goes away. Whatever you do, remember death is never the option. Your life is so important and taking it would be a crime against humanity. You are important and so is your life. Your with child now, so why take two lives when you could save both?
My final advice to you darling is too get involved with a church(even if you aren’t religious) they provide a lot of good services for people in need. Dont go to Planned Parenthood, they will feed you with lies about abortion and make it seem like it’s your only option.
Interim Foster Care(child is still yours, but is released back to you when you’re ready.)
Adoption, it can be a tough giving away your child but if you want something for it that you can’t provide than you saved its life and provided a family who probably dearly wanted a kid, with your beautiful baby.
Parenthood, this option may be the one that’s scary to think about.. And in truth it is, but all the good things are a little scary. You will be graced to raise a kid to be your own! That child will love you unconditionally and give you the attention you deserve.
BUT NOT, abortion. This has probably been heavily on your mind lately.. But death to your child is not the option. Just because things will be tough the answer isn’t killing. The baby is not better off dead for any reasons.
Help can always be found when help is truly needed.
If you’re on the computer there are some help hotlines numbers that could help you out. Thanks for asking my opinion. I wish you the best of luck and god bless.
If you can’t figure out the proper usage of “your” and “you’re,” you are (which, when abbreviated, is YOU’RE, in case you’re wondering) in no place to be giving advice to a pregnant teenager who so clearly should NOT be having a baby at this point in her life. Ugh.
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I’ve posted this before but it’s worth reblogging!
Just a reminder - if you’re drawing a team superhero book and more than one of your characters has the same build YOU’RE DOING IT ALL WRONG